Personal Coaching

Drained and overwhelmed?

Struggling to keep up with the demands of work and home?

Ready to turn your weaknesses into strengths and reach new heights in all aspects of your life?

If so, my personal, 1:1 coaching is the answer you’ve been searching for

Let’s do this together

With me as your personal coach, we’ll develop customised systems and habits that will help you stay energised and organised.

We’ll work on your physical, mental and emotional wellbeing to create a holistic approach that will transform your life from the inside out.

I am committed to helping you discover your strengths, overcome your challenges, and become the best version of yourself.

The path to change can be steep and rocky,
but the view from the top is worth it.

The journey towards personal growth and evolution can be both freeing and daunting. But with me by your side, you will have the support and guidance you need to overcome obstacles and reach your goals.

Let’s embark on this journey together and discover what’s possible for you. Don’t wait any longer to transform your life.

“Coaching with Tobi was one of the most impactful choices of my personal life and my career”

Why did you start with coaching?

Coaching with Tobi was one of the most impactful choices of my personal life and my career. Before I started, my life was a constant to-and-fro dance of doing things too much or too little. Either I was caught up on work, getting quality time with my wife, getting quality time with my kids, or growing personally, but never more than one or two of those things at a time. I felt stuck in a pattern of swinging back and forth between doing one thing too much and everything else too little.

I don’t think I had ever DM’d a random stranger on Twitter before, but Tobi sent a tweet about looking for busy dads who wanted to find balance in their life and it really resonated with me. As someone who never had a coach before, I was nervous about the process.

Our first meeting calmed my nerves and got me very excited. His approach wasn’t some pre-baked course to sell or 5 steps to fix XYZ, he wanted to know what my goals were, what problems I was facing, and what motivated me to change. Every piece of advice was catered to my situation and perspective. Tobi has wisdom on many topics, and a way with words that is persuasive without being abrasive.

What did you find?

Over the course of our relationship, our sessions were consistently the highlight of my week. It was time spent working on balancing life, rather than time spent working on one individual task. Not only that, but my wife noticed a major difference in my development and our relationship too, and quickly became a fan of Tobi just from seeing the results.

She once told me: “I feel like you’ve been in a really good place lately, more than normal. Your patience with the kids, attitude, motivation, I’m not sure what exactly it is. But whatever Tobi is doing, it’s working.” 😂

Nowadays it’s hard to imagine life before coaching. There are so many new habits with my kids, wife, work, and career that it’s difficult to keep track of. Some of these are daily or weekly, some yearly.

A key part of this journey was finding joy in fitness. This isn’t something I’ve ever felt good at or motivated to do before, but during my time with Tobi I got into the best shape I’ve ever been in. My eating habits, strength, and cardio were all transformed. I’m lifting more weight and running further than I ever have in my life.

Not only that, but I’ve found long-term practices that I enjoy. Fitness that I feel is easily maintainable over the course of my life, rather than a short-term experiment.

Who would you recommend it to?

If you value balance in life, feel like your actions don’t always align with your priorities, or feel stuck under insurmountable responsibilities, I can’t recommend Tobi highly enough.

If you’re early in your career or marriage and want to create balance before it becomes an issue, again, I cannot recommend him highly enough.

If you lack motivation, struggle with eating right, exercising, or sleeping enough, I’d recommend talking with Tobi.

To those who may say, “you’re just listing every topic there is,” I’d say: Balance is never about just one thing.

When was the last time you deeply regretted investing in your wellbeing?

Preston B., software consultant, husband and dad of 4

  • “Like many, I found it immensely difficult to balance my professional commitments, family life, personal goals, and (lowest on my list) exercise. When I first came across Tobi, I couldn't believe all he did—and moreover, how healthy, cheerful, and positive he presented himself in every interaction. Since I've had the privilege of working with him for several months, my respect for him as only deepened. He's taught me how to focus, prioritize, and to train myself gently, day by day, to be disciplined. He has helped me become a better version of myself. Could not recommend him more highly to anyone in a situation like mine: busy, harried, and seeking order. Tobi's unlike anyone else I know.”

    Ben C - Communications Exec, Husband & Father of 3

  • "Few coaches walk the walk like Tobi. He embodies what it means to be an intentional leader, father, husband, friend, and man. If you want to forge balance in your personal and professional life, and finally live up to your potential, I can’t recommend Tobi enough."

    Corey Wilks, Psy.D., Psychologist, Coach

  • "Tobi is the real deal. His systems for keeping on top of a busy life (CEO, 6 kids AND a hybrid athlete) are solid. Tobi really does show the potential you can squeeze out of life."

    Sam W.

  • "Tobi's coaching helped me a lot to get myself more organized and less worried facing daily problems in business using the lessons on mental toughness."

    Dr. Niklas G. - Business owner, husband and father

  • "Tobi personifies leading by example from a place of humility. My connection with Tobi is a massive source of my courage and inspiration. Especially when this path feels lonely and painful. Connecting with Tobi has had such a positive impact on me."

    Dan S.

  • "Since I started working with Tobi I've felt more focused on the "one thing" that really matters in my life and have a renewed energy that has spilt into all other areas. I would highly recommend working with Tobi as it is about as close to a "no-brainer" decision as you can get!"

    Tyler E. - Business Owner, Husband & Father

  • “Successful business leader, athlete, father of 6 - Tobi walks the walk in a way very few others can. Everything that attracted me to him when we first chatted played out over the subsequent months we spent together as his insights into work, family, relationships, physical health were all invaluable on the journey I was on. His coaching approach is validated by his unique life experience but comes with a dose of humility and openness that made me feel like I was always in control and getting to the places I needed to be. He's a thoughtful and inspiring person that had a meaningful impact in my life and delighted to now call a friend”

    Julian G - Big Tech Director, Husband & Father of 3

  • "Tobi has deep insights on many levels (personal management, family, strategy & leadership) and will be a great asset to those who work with him."

    Sam H. - CEO, husband and father

  • "Finding balance between work, home and health has always been a battle and a cause of stress for me. Working with Tobi has been a game changer. I'm more relaxed, focused and healthier than I can ever remember being. Would absolutely recommend, in a flash!!!"

    Troy H. - Business Owner, Husband & Father

  • “I was looking for guidance, support, and a friend. Someone who understood the unique challenges good men and responsible men face in a changing world. Someone who could hold me accountable but who didn’t judge, who could provide constructive advice and insight. Someone who had a proven record of leading by example. Moreover, someone who had himself worked through tested methods for improving one’s productivity effectiveness and self discipline in our varied, multifaceted roles in life, as a parent, a husband, and as a professional (in my case as a storyteller, videographer and journalist). I found that person in Tobi. Thank you Tobi for accompanying me on my journey towards becoming a stronger, healthier, fitter, happier and more disciplined version of myself. Comfortable being who I am, and comfortable believing in my potential for change. I’m continuing on that journey, realising those dreams that until I met Tobi I had scarcely dared to dream.”

    Robin F - Ex-BBC Journalist now freelancer, husband and father of 2

  • “As a communications executive, an entrepreneur, and a father of three, managing my time and energy is my most important task. For a long time, I felt myself just barely keeping afloat. Since I've started working with Tobi, all that has changed. He has a mastery of productivity-enhancing strategy and tactics that is not merely theoretical: it's what he does every day. Beyond that, his care for his clients—and his moral character—is exceptional. I cannot recommend him highly enough.”

    Benjamin C - Award-Winning Editor & Journalist, husband & father of 3

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